I am new...I saw an earlier post about setting goals to see if you can make it without pulling... I just thought I would see if anyone would like to do that. Maybe start with a goal of half a day or a couple hours or a day?? not sure, and then move up from there. Also to be able to be honest with eachother and help eachother. I need help doing it! I think I really am ready to stop this AWFUL thing! I HATE IT...IT IS NOT WORTH IT. I read a qoute somewhere that said One is too many and a Thousand will never be enough. I am going to try to think of this everytime I think about pulling! But if anyone else thinks that if they would like the support and goal setting to help stop then let me know! Also if there is anything that has worked for others please post that... I think we can all seriously help eachother to find how to stop
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