husband of 30 + yrs developed very feminine qualities 14 yrs ago. Lasted few months and dissapeared. Recently after a heart attack and 30 minute death of which he recovered pretty well, he was back in this role but now dressing, wigs, shoes, very feminine....I am in role conflict. He is growing breasts with herb teas and lotions.These herbs have created a sexual appetite as well as breasts and recently had and confessed an infidelity that has blown our family apart. I am caught in a role confusion, don't really know how to deal with all of it. I a pretty open minded and have encouraged him to be who he truly is inside but this is almost over my head. I am now in therapy as are two of our adult children.
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