I must say i believe you are handling yourself well.

My experience has been that when folks are at this point there is a lot of emotion and drama.

And i agree with you. I have no slight of words for you, no quick wit. If i had a dollar for every time i told someone that if you can avoid walking this path it would be better for you... i'd be wealthy!

My point is that you have my unconditional Love and admiration. And i like having your input here. I know of no reason why you couldn't continue to share your experience and opinion.

I would welcome it!

But i always respect your opinions and choices too. It's clear you are an evolved soul, so why don't you continue to share until you don't want to be here anymore vs. transition?

Marina

at least u tried!!! im so proud of u for that!!!! me i don't think i could even TRY it....im too scared...and maybe that's just a sign for me to accept myself as i am....im sry it didn't happen for u...it makes me sad...but you've inspired a lot of ppl on here..and i wanted to thank you so much for that...i don't think we always get what we want during life and we just have to accept things as they are...it sux but its how life goes i gess...so not fair.....*big kangroo hug!!!!* luv u!!! -cal :)

Go gently!

(((HUGS)))

Eliese. XX

if that is the way you feel then go for it-your happiness and peace matters most-you at least stood up and took a shot at it-so at least you won't ever have that wondering in your head "what if" you did your what if" and found it wasn't right for you-be proud of yourself for that-don't think of yourself as giving up-just that a path you were on just wasn't leading you to where you thought it was and so chose a different direction-there is no failure-only a change of pace-best wishes and my love for your future and no matter what our support is here for you*hugz&kissez*

I'm so sorry for that. I wish you good luck.

You are what God made you to be a girl. He doesn't make mistakes. You are what you are supposed to be. So be the best young lady that you can be. Remember God loves you the way he made you & you can pray to him & ask him to heal your scars he's the only one who can
God Bless,
Sherry

Hi Sherry,
You say be who God made you to be and God does not make mistakes!

Ok I agree He makes no mistakes but if you believe He has made me to be one way only then you WILL have to beleive He made the person with the bad heart that way and they should stay that way and the person with brain damage then also would have had to be made that way and should stay that way!

That is all so silly!
Crap happens and that is just the way it is. If they can stay as they are and over come these feelings then so be it and that is awesome!

If I except that God made me a boy then I would be wrong to be a girl now right? Well if it had not been for my Abba Daddy I would not be here nor would I have learned what had been going on in me all those years of torment. It was God who led me to my transition and has stood by me every step of the way.

God created reproduction to function in a certain way. Some times things go wrong and this has nothing to do with His perfect plan for us to reproduce. Over time man has influenced the human reproduction system in many different ways. From a drug called D.E.S to other hormones to stress and the environment to the chemicals you breathe and eat and filter through your skin.

All these things and more cause people to be as they are. Your right God does not make mistakes or make junk and all of the other quick witted things we say.

He does allow things to happen. Yes He knew me before I was me and YES he knew me in the womb and YES He knew I would be born with this birth defect too.

I am NOT jumping on you here at all. I am just saying my 2 cents worth like you did. Nothing more and nothing less. However when you make statements like this even with great intentions and up lifting words to some one you have to remember all of the others who are going to read this. Those words could cause more harm and hurt in some one else then you would ever know.

I hope you can see my heart here and you understand I am not being mean at all. Just pointing out a few things to you. Please be very careful how you say things.

Have a wonderful day and may God enlighten your walk with Him deeply!
Love Jami

I am also very proud of you for trying and finding that you want to stay as you are. That is so wonderful and I wish you the very best success as well.

If you ever want to chat feel free to write me. If you find there are days which you just do not know why you ever stopped don't panic. Just take a few minutes and regroup and rethink things and you will quickly find your reason why! YOU CAN make it!

Wow your a treasure that's for sure!
Have a wonderful day and an even better life!
Love and Hugs
Jami