I found out 2 weeks ago that my husband cross dresses and has been doing so for some time. He also has been posting ads wanting to be submissive with another guy. There had been some intimacy problems in our marriage for a few years. I always wanted more sex than he did. I tried everything to get him to be intimate with me but nothing really seemed to work. When I first found his emails to other guys my first response was "it's not me" he wants something I don't have and I was slightly relieved. I didn't confront him but I did allow him to slowly tell me that he just recently has desires to dress up and be submissive with other guys. I know he has desires much longer than he is willing to admit to me but I don't want him to go back into the closet. I think he still is unwilling to comes to terms with it himself and is slowly sharing it with me. I am happy he has admitted the little he has to me but I wish I could talk to other women in my shoes. I don't want to tell my girlfriends because I don't think they would understand or be very supportive. Looking for someone here to share my thoughts and feelings on this matter.
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