you can have mine. all my life i dream and re-dream that one day i'll wake up as a girl...
i know it wont happen till i take the steps to change my own body, so that is what i am working on now...but it makes my life even crazier
pat

What obstacles do you have to overcome seeing a Gender Specialist?

Why? Because getting with a professional in the area of expertise can get you on the fast track to being in a better place.... that's why.

Giving yourself a break, cut some slack... whatever. Take a brief mental vacation and relax when stressed over it.

Rationalize: There are many people here, and they are coping... say to yourself "I can too!" And you will if you want to...

Just learn to take smaller pieces at a time of this enormous undertaking... after all, if you could snap your fingers and have it, you would already!

Give yourself patience, you're worth it!

-Marina

I think about that sometimes, especially when I hear how easy it is for a guy to get off. A man has a few inches to play with and we have less than one.

i just hafta comment.about men having more to play with. the one way women came way out ahead n this cosmic crapshoot is in orgasms particularly after age 40. I dont care how much they have to play with, one orgasm as compaired to a dozen? or more? means the ladies take first place in this one.

I feel the same way, but i'm not sure of what to do either...

i didnt start this for people to talk to each other on thier views of weather or noth guys have better sex. i started it cuz i keep having the URGE to use a dick... when i dont have one. i dont care who has muiltiple orgasms of or has easier time having sex.

i tried talking to my girlfriend about how i can't get off unless i'm imaging that i'm a guy. she's been very supportive but she basically told me that i need to just relax and enjoy the feeling, i guess i really don't know how to talk to her about it. it's not a feeling that i can really shut off or ignore. any suggestions?

this is a hard one to help out with, i have felt that way all my life and the only way i have been able to overcome it is by using a strap on making love to my lady with a bullet viabrator tucked up onto my clit, at the same time you can also finger a woman and close your eyes and use your immagination and immagine you are making love with a penis using your fingers as the extention... it has worked for me...

Hey crystal, I know how you feel, if you feel how I think you do, like I do. You like being a girl because you find men unattractive and you like lesbians. How they act etc. and you cna only be a lesbian if your a girl but you also feel like you would feel more comfortable and yourslef with a penis. It's how I feel, I wnat to be inbetween. Me, a girl and yet not. I don't really know exactly what to say as I am struggling with this as well. Strap on...I dunno really. I feel like (trying to relate here not just going on about myself) even though I want to be a guy at times that I also have very feminen characteristics and in the end wouldn't be totally happy as a full fledge man either. Nor would I care to go through what comes with a sex change. For now I suppose I'm simple a very masculine lesbian.
Message me if you wnat to talk more, I'm here :)

Okay, well I certainly know how you feel as far as not being able to use parts of you that you don't have. Almost like being paralyzed. I've always felt I was trapped in a girls body my whole life, so in my case, there's nothing I like about being a girl. What is it you like about being a girl?

I do feel your frustration though. I can't get anywhere sexually without imagining being a guy.

well, at the moment i hate how i look, im fat, with horrible skin. but i like being a girl because of brests and how girls can look. i hate how penis's look, but i still have the urge to use one.

I know exactly what you are talking about. I don't touch myself or let anyone else touch me. Because I don't have the penis that I should have. Sometimes, I forget. It's shocking to me to realize it over and over again. Sometimes, it's like I can actually feel it. And then it's gone.