My adult (mid 40's) brother, told me for the first time last night that he enjoys cross dressing. He has been in therapy for about a year and a half, and is finally coming to terms with many issues, this just being one of them. I support him unconditionally, but he is scared, confused, and very isolated. He lives in a really small town (read uptight and not liberal), does not have the support of his girlfriend, and I live across the country. What can I do (other than calling and telling him how much I love him) to support him?
why do people hate us?why does all I do turn out for the worst? Why are people afraid? Why was I born the wrong gender?What can we do to help?
Its been a while, but I've figured a few things out in that time. I'm not necessarily transgender (in my mind I guess). I don't want to go through the full transition, I do want to do top surgery and maybe hormones. But, not to become the opposite sex, but to become neither. I want to be Agender (one who doesn't identify as either male or female.) Honestly, when I found out that this was a...