Ok so I am just starting to come to grips with a new medical consern that I learned of a couple of months ago. I went in to my doctor to have what would ammount to the forst of my now annual checkups that would include a cat scan of certain parts that are more prone to cancer. well I got a phone call the next day telling me that I would have to come in as soon as possable. She told me that they found something but all she told me was that it was not cancer but that I needed to come in for more testing. Well I went in later that day and was told that I have something in my abdomin that they would like to get a better look at. When the results came in to say I was shocked would have been an under statement. My doctor took me back to her office and was told to sit as what she had to say would come as quite a shock. First she asked me if I knew anything about having any surgeries and I said no. Then she asked if I had ever had lower intestinal pain. I replied that it comes and goes but I just chalk it up to being indigestion. She then told me that I had Ovaries, fallopean tubes, uterous, and a cervix. OMG WTF. Just so anyone reading this knows I have been raised as a male as I have working male genitals. Well to hear this came as a shock. Apparently the doctor that delivered me had taken steps to make me a male. I learned that I do not have a vagina due to it being removed shortly after birth. I am or at least was what is loosely termed a hermaphrodite. This was something that I was not prepared for and still am a bit wierded out about it. Anyways I am going to get off here and try again to collect my thoughts about my new situation.
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