I've never moved on. I see guys I fell in love with almost everyday and they are completely happy with their relationships, which I'm happy for them, but deep down it still hurts, very badly. To want and not have is a horrible feeling.

I just got used to the fact that the guy i used to like wasn't the same anymore.
I guess it was easier since he lived on the other side of the world...
Ok, we met online and we were friends for 4 years.
First year or two i was crazy about him and really liked him, and he liked me too!
But, then he changed and we stopped talking as much.
Then in the last year i missed him a lot and missed how we used to be and such but he's changed too much to be that friend again.
... If any of that made sense.
Well, all i'm saying is that people change and sometimes you just have to wait for your brain/heart to accept that.
Took me a year but now i'm ok with the fact that i can't even be that guys friend anymore.

Anyway, hope you had a good day and a merry Christmas :)

For some reason it seems guys get over things so quickly. Me and my ex broke up b/c long distance and I moved back and he already had a girl living with him!! And it'd had only been like 4 months, and we were even engaged. It still hurts me. It's been about 7-8 months and when I see him my heart feels for him. I'm not mad or wanna get revenge, and what we had at one time was special so if that girl makes him happy I have to accept it. I think you will move on it just takes time. Some girls never move on completely and in my case I still have emotions for my ex-fience and my first love. You always will. Good luck

I know exactly what your going through and to tell you the truth i never moved on until i ended all convo with them and never saw them at all. He moved on with his life had a kid and got married and i moved on with mine. Sure i sometimes miss the times we had together but knowing that we had something and that sure it was great at the time but people change and he is happy now makes me happy. I know you may not want to end all convo with him since you just started talking to him again but right now maybe it's a good thing to do that and for sure tell him why you are ending all convo since he has a right to know.

He may end up telling you not to since he likes talking to you and of course that's great but all your going to get out of it is being heartbroken knowing that he's not with you.

Hmm, well, this is common happening for me, so it doesn't strike me as that bad, but when I think about the first few times it happened, I recall it being much more difficult back then, so I guess that's how it feels to you, then.

I've always had no real problem becoming friends with girls, but my difficulty in socializing over long periods of time often leads me to not only change into a different person, but also become distant, or even disappear. This leads to whomever I date, as well as whomever I befriend, leaving me, and for an understandable reason as well. While I no longer care too much if I die without ever experiencing sex, you can imagine that with that habit of mine, I'd often get close to a girl, as the relationships worked very well at first, but then it'd all fall apart as I began to withdraw, and thus, we'd split up. So I'd often become very interested in a girl, and her in me as well, only to lose her in the end. And of course, sense I had a normal desire for sex back then, it'd often lead to the sort of thing you're describing.

Nowadays, it's not at all about the wanting someone physically whom I can't have, but rather wanting someone emotionally that I can't have.