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so me and my gf were like fooling around today. we did everything but like when we were gonna do it i couldnt get a hard on. i was rlly angrey because the whole time we were doing the other stuff i was. is that normal the first time?
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actually ima say yes.it happened to me to (stage fright i say)but every time after that it was fine hard on command(except that time it was cold but anyway)you may have been a little nervous no matter how mawny times you do forplay its never the same as the real thing.dont worry youll be fine
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it actually is kinda normal, especially if you were drinking or anything. but listen... MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS ITS NOT HER FAULT. i understand you feeling bad about it, but from the girl's perspective its really hard for us to feel pretty or hot after that happens. but trust, me its completely normal for a guy to not get hard sometimes, and sometimes us girls dont get wet. like, our bodies arent perfect and sometimes they dont do what we want them to do, you know? good luck though next time!
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completely agree w/ nell, its very normal but just make it clear its not about her. Happened to me the first time mi bf couldn't get it up, it'll happen the second time just keep workin at it.....practicfe makes perfect
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yeah its normal but i never had a problem wit hit becuase bot hsides of my family have really high labido so i never had that problem but im just a freak like that lol :)
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