it depends on the girl. you need to be able to talk to her about what she likes and what she doesn't. some girls really don't like it, and others are just self-conscious that you will be grossed out and not want to be with them anymore. if you're in that situation, try to work your way up to it... (details probably not necessary) make sure you're allowing her to tell you what she likes (but don't constantly ask her, that's a major turn-off.) the best thing to do is communicate.

Actually, believe it or not, in a lot of states, it is illegal to have sex with a person under the age of 18. I know this sounds silly, but it is to protect us (girls and guys who have had sexual assaults, etc.). Sorry to burst your bubble!

Er, not sure why Julia decided to say that but ok.
I agree with Dragoness ^^ up there.
It depends all on the type of girl you're with.
I don't think its perverted, I haven't really thought about it before... I mean, i've done it, had it done, what ever.
*ponders this for awhile*...
Mmm i think i'll just stick with "It depends on the girl".

Lol you know its even illegal to kiss for more then three minutes in some states?

... That made me laugh.
America is funny!

Single, widowed or devorced women are also not allowed to go sky diving on a sunday afternoon in one state (giggles).
Crazy right?

go with your gut

ha I don't think she'll think you're a perv, especially if she goes down on you beforehand. I mean maybe if you're like hey, can I go down on you? haha but I don't think you were gonna do that. Anyway, if she wants it go for it :]

I love it! Sorry if that was to much info but I do. I like it better when a guy goes first. It's like he can wait and he'd rather make me happy first. Maybe you should ask her? It wouldn't bother me if a guy asked me if he could atleast he respects you. Signed--Nora

depends on the girl you are with.. personally i like it but we are all different.

i H8 it. itz sik. well soundz sik. bt girlz r all diffrnt. tlk 2 her bout it-x

Many girls enjoy receiving oral. However, if you think a girl is feeling tense and unsure about you going down on her, dont risk it. Ask questions beforehand if you're worried. Most girls will be relieve that you asked instead of heading straight to the basement without thinking about whether or not she'd be comfortable with it.

You're in the right state of mind though- if a girl gives you head, it's always nice to return the favor!

xx Kayla

If she isn't comfortable then that's her choice, but it's always nice to have the favour returned. I suggest talking to the girl and asking if she'd like it if you'd return the favour.

It really depends on the girl. Some don't like it and find it awkward and weird. Other love it.

I supposed this is where communication is supposed to come in? Hah. Go down and see how she responds, and if it doesn't seem right, ask her if she wants you to keep going or not.

It depends, so you should ask the girl!

i think if you talked to her about it before you go down on her, she'd be more comfortable with it. i doubt if you asked she'd think you're a perv.

Yeah I was always asked first. It's just polite incase you are not comfortable. It's not weird just be like, do you like it? she will like it. Signed--Nora