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My story is quite long sorry.
When I was younger I liked kissing lol. I kissed boys and girls, ones that I didn't really like but just because. Now it sounds so stupid.
I had my first boyfriend when I was 15. He ended up physically and sexually abusing me and then raped me. I was then sexually abused by a family friend who was about 10 years older than me.
About this time I met my boyfriend. We were best friends at this time though.
I then went out with a girl I'd like for a long time. She was confused with her sexuality and messed me around a bit.
I then had some sense jump into my head and asked my current boyfriend out. It was the best thing I'd ever done. I was really scared at the time and I didn't want him to touch me or anything and he was fine with all that and he helped me through a lot. But then his parents moved to a different city. It was really hard but we managed to keep a long distance relationship going.
I've been up to visit and it's been amazing. We havn't had sex but we've done nearly everything else.
The thing is I'm his first girlfriend. I was his first kiss. First everything.
I feel like I'm unclean and he has such an amazing gift to give to me and I had mine stolen. It makes me so upset and I've talked to him about it and he says that I am still a virgin and that every day he spends with me is a gift.
He's 19 and I'm 18.
Is it normal for me to be upset like this?
When I was younger I liked kissing lol. I kissed boys and girls, ones that I didn't really like but just because. Now it sounds so stupid.
I had my first boyfriend when I was 15. He ended up physically and sexually abusing me and then raped me. I was then sexually abused by a family friend who was about 10 years older than me.
About this time I met my boyfriend. We were best friends at this time though.
I then went out with a girl I'd like for a long time. She was confused with her sexuality and messed me around a bit.
I then had some sense jump into my head and asked my current boyfriend out. It was the best thing I'd ever done. I was really scared at the time and I didn't want him to touch me or anything and he was fine with all that and he helped me through a lot. But then his parents moved to a different city. It was really hard but we managed to keep a long distance relationship going.
I've been up to visit and it's been amazing. We havn't had sex but we've done nearly everything else.
The thing is I'm his first girlfriend. I was his first kiss. First everything.
I feel like I'm unclean and he has such an amazing gift to give to me and I had mine stolen. It makes me so upset and I've talked to him about it and he says that I am still a virgin and that every day he spends with me is a gift.
He's 19 and I'm 18.
Is it normal for me to be upset like this?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
you said he is the best thing that has happened to you, and that you ara a gift to him in everyday, this is your chance to start all over again, this time with a smile not only in your face but in your heart and soul
disregard your fears and embrace the love you both share
mmm forgot to introduce myself n_nU, my name is Tay (carlos actually but i dont like it much)
i hope my words have been of help to you, i really do, i know what its like to feel undeserving
see you around "wabby" n_n
Dont feel unworthy of him. You deserve him. You deserve someone good. Who makes you feel good as well.
i think it is amazing how passionate you are.
something was stolen from you, and you say you feel unclean, your not. your a survivor, you could be one of the purest people i know. dont feel like this is a problem, because he is in love with you, and you are in love with him. you have amazing strength. keep going.