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help me.

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i have a problem. I've been raped 3 times, and i have developed a phobia of sex, and the male penis. i want to have a close relationship, and finally have sex with a boy. but im scared. when i see penis, i think of the boy who raped me, and i instintly begin to shake, and jump. i cant even think of penis. what do i do? im so confused. all i want is a normal life.
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haya,
are you in therapy? it could help with these issues, but if you dont feel ready just talk to him about it, let him know your past so he can understand why your reacting like this,
hope ive helped,
xxx
JJ.
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I agree with the first reply, definitely get therapy/counseling if you haven't already. It's going to take a while to actually feel comfortable thinking about sex since you had such an awful experience with it. And my advice is that once you finally decide to have sex...make sure its with someone you truly love and who appreciates and understands what you've been through.
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