Okay, so im in highschool and the group of people I hang out with is pretty cool. Basically...lots of people at the school dont like me for whatever reason... mostly because i have a uni-brow (not rly... i know some other peoples who are worse). okay so anyway.... i have a girlfriend named rebecca. and her best friends are stephanie and melanie. basically one day i was talkin in this big group of people with a few of my guy friends and then i keep seeing rebecca, melanie, or stephanie looking over at me and laughin....and when i turn to look at them they would turn away. I asked rebecca (my girlfriend) about it later on and she refused to tell me. I finally got it out of her the next day and it was about this inside joke they had said that day and other days where they would ask me this weird question. and I told her... why couldnt you just tell me that in the first place? thats nothing. and this has been going ON AND ON. not only jokes...just everything in general she will hide from me. like I know that shes a HUGE flirt with other guys... its just who she is... and she knows I know that but she STILL will not tell me stuff about the guys she talks to . like she called me one day and was at ice skating and had me look up a phone number in her myspace account and i saw these messages about some tom guy (no not that tom... a real person lol) and I asked her why couldnt you just tell me you were flirting with this guy!? and ive talked to stephanie and melanie to see if they would talk to her for me and she still just DOES NOT GET IT. ive told her 1,000,000 times i am seriously fine with whatever she does, says, whatever jokes, it wont hurt my feelings and she still will not tell me stuff. she just says its because "your a guy" and then i always say bull*@&$ because this guy named corben... another of our friends ... melanie, stephanie, and rebecca... tell him... EVERYTHING. and hes STRAIGHT (no offense to any homosexuals...girls just tell them more). he knew about stuff that me and rebecca had done that she wasnt supposed to tell people. it sickens me. im her boyfriend and i know less than him. I really just wish that she could tell me things. anyone have any suggestions as to what to do?
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