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Getting over an Ex

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about three weeks ago my girlfriend of over a year dumped me and I have been trying to move on and accept that we aren't dating anymore but as each day goes by the sinking feeling in my gut gets worse and I have random breakdowns..which makes things awkward when in public...does anyone have any advice as to how I can get over her?
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Oo tough situation. I just got out of a year-ish long relationship too. For me i try to remember that I have to make myself happy and not depend on the other person too. I also eat ben and jerrys (it helps, even if you're not a girl!). I try to do other activities or be with happy people that will keep me busy so i don't have so much down time to think. What do you like to do? Nows a good time to find out! Writing about it sometimes helps to let go of all those feelings. Or write a goodbye letter to her saying anything you want, but not give it to her. Also try to remember that it's better to smile because it happened and not dwell because its over. TIME HEALS! promise! you'll be okay
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i'll give that a shot thanx
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Well my ex cheated on me with my best friend and i found out on christmas. Now she's pregnant with his baby. Like they always say once a bitch always a bitch. Get over her. Move on. She will soon find out what she is missing. Your wounds in your heart will close up. It takes time.
deleted_user
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its so hard to move on.. i cantmove on from my ex.. its so depressing its like i hate getting out of bed i guess it would be great to talk to a friend i mean are you guys atleast still friends?
HONESTYis
HONESTYis
Hm. I think you should just talk to your friends and allow them to make you feel better. It helps me (sometimes) when I'm down. Other than that you'll just have to wait it out until you feel better. As for boredom you can start up a new hobby or pick-up an old one like writing or running or something. Running helps me a lot when I feel like I just want to get away. So does drawing & reading, but not everyone likes those haha. Anyway, hope this helps :]
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i was with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. we broke up mutually because we were going to different colleges but it was the hardest thing i've ever had to do. it took my about 5-6 months to finally get over him and i still think of him from time to time. it's hard. time heals all.
deleted_user
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honestly dude, this might sound harsh, but if she dumped you - she's not worth your time, your thoughts, and especially not your tears. the best way to get over her is to start seeing someone else. i know people don't condone rebound relationships...but who cares.

my uncle dated this girl for 5 years and when he proposed, she said no and dumped him. he met my aunt 3 months later and proposed to her pretty much straight away - they now have 5 kids and have been married for 30 years or something.

never let a past relationship affect your confidence, because you might miss the one good thing that comes your way
deleted_user
deleted_user
honestly. im goin over the same thing with my ex boyfriend..ive tried everything n really time is the only thing that can help..but even that isnt workin for me rite now
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