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deleted_user 12/10/2007

Hey guys
Theres sorta a problem, and this was the closest related community to the problem...
So I'm dating this guy, and I really really like him, and people say he really likes me. I was at this party, and for the first half of it we were in a couple closets, not doing anything really big, but just stuff.
While we were making out, his phone vibrates and I ask if its this friend that was somewhere else at the party that was bugging him all night.
He opens it and closes it really really quickly and says probably. Later, I pick up his phone and read from a girl "Do you still have those pictures of me?"
He said "Nah I have a girlfriend now and she goes through my phone. Why?"
She said "hahah oh just wondering........."
I sorta drifted away from him the entire night, and whenever I'd see him he'd be texting. Later he said it was that guy that was bugging him, but I have no reason to believe that.
And, over the summer he had sex with this German girl, and it turns out they never broke up.
But he swears he really likes me.
This German girl lives no where near us as far as I know, and I have no idea about the girl that texted him.

Sorry this is so long, but should I be worried??
Should I break up with him?

deleted_user 12/11/2007

well honestly something similar happened to me and i just kinda overlooked it and sometimes confronted him about it and it would cause a huge agruement but it the end he ended up dumping me for one of the girls that texted him.........so i ended up getting my heart broke and it turned out the entire time he was cheating on me. so honestly it doesn't look good.....i would be worried though and i don't know if u should break up with him or not......that's your decision honestly i would.

deleted_user 12/14/2007

Heya hun... do what you feel is right... if you fink in the end ur heart guna get broken he not worth it, trust me I know!!! However, I know what it feels like to really like sum1 and it feels wrong to, and u aint sure what to do, I got out mine, and had/have a broken heart and it don't feel good, but in the end u just gotta get on with life. You should just see how it goes but try not to get strong feelings until u know he is treatin u proper and all that! x

deleted_user 12/15/2007

It sounds like hes cheating on you.
The text thing..
Maybe it was a girl he had hooked up with before yall were dating.
But the over the summer german girl thing, I wouldnt trust him so much after that.
Just be on the lookout.

And its not good if he cant tell you the truth about things.
Not very healthy for your relationship.

deleted_user 12/17/2007

try gettin more evidence b4 takin such a big step tho it sounds lyk he's cheatin u -x

deleted_user 12/17/2007

Finding out that they lied always seems to ruin the relationship, because then you will not be able to trust him. Everytime you see him you will wonder if he is texting another girl. You should tell him that you saw that text and ask him why he lied. If he fesses up will then you decied what to do, stay with him and hope that he tells the truth or leave him and find someone better. Signed--Nora *Message me if you need me*

deleted_user 01/14/2008

ive seen this happen plenty of times. dude if you really think hes cheating..break it off now because thats all he'll ever do.

deleted_user 08/14/2008

Yup u should, it doesnt sound right to me, he's lyin to u thts enuff evidence, u should end b4 it goes to far

deleted_user 08/15/2008

I'm in a relationship with a compulsive liar. He won't admit he is but we know that most likely he is. It's hard for me to trust him. But I know for one thing. If I were to go through his phone and it say something like that I'd probably be upset. As for the German girl thing, it'd be hard to believe him after that especially if he never broke it off that you know of. Overall if I were in your shoes I would probably break up with him.

deleted_user 08/16/2008

I think that the fact that he really likes you is true, but...he can't seem to be faithful in your relationship and I think that as much as it may hurt. Right now I think you should let him go for the time being, just until he can prove to you that he can be faithful and also make sure he doesn't talk to that girl anymore.

deleted_user 08/27/2008

I'd assume this means that they were obviously closer in one way or another at some time and she sent him, most likely, suggestive pictures. She may have simply remembered it and thought "oh man, it would be embarrassing if he still has those..."

Still, your bf needs to learn that if he says "my gf looks through my phone," he should also delete his inbox and outbox messages...

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