What lets you know you are attracted to her?

I feel the exact same way about this girl in my class, it's so frustrating... I feel like i'm going 2 burst. I love her so much, but 2 eveyone else she's just fat and blah blah... but 2 me she's a godess. I need some help aswell so if u cum up with anything let me know

i had a problem like this a while back, except it was the other way around. my best friend had come out to me as bi, and had a huge crush on me. Four years later we're together.

Honestly babe, it depends. She how she feels about homosexuality by talking about South of Nowhere, or a TV show addressing functional gay relationships.

If she says that they are repulsive, you should defend how you feel and say that everyone is equal, or how ever you feel.

if you are religious. check out this site:
http://www.godmademegay.com/Letter.pdf

it helped me alot.

i hope that this helps

message me anytime about it. k?

I know where you're coming from. Although I've never been in that same position I know how it feels. I agree with genuine, try talking about something along the lines of sexuality.
Get her views on it and see what happens. Things always change. And if she shoots you down don't give. I kept trying for a year to get this girl and it paid off.
Never give up babe

If you ever want to talk feel free to message

something similar happened to me, about a year and a half ago. i was friends with this girl and then we started going out. i too never considered myself bi..we had problems in the relationship, so were on-off for about 6 months. after we broke up for good i was over it. i think for me it was just a phase. maybe you're just attached to her? or could you really see yourself in a relationship with this girl?

you might want to take this to the bi/gay/lesbian community. you could probably get some useful tips there

My friend had a simalar situation.
She ended up with her though.

It could be your curiosity.
Talk to her about it.

ur a wannabee.
u cnt luv her
trust me u just luk up 2 her or sumthiin-x

I think u (Farzana) shuldnt tell abuff that she is a wannabe.. i think thats is an unfair comment... Abuff i was in the exact same position as u i thort i liked my best friend.. and i did but unfortunetly she was a homafobe.. so nothing ever happened there.. nd just like Farzana is telling u, i was always told its a stage.. Well guess wat they were wrong and i am gay and there is nothing they can do about it and no one can tell u wat u feel for someone or wat u r cas only u can determine that. No one can tell u wether or not u like this girl.. U just need to sus her out, find out her opinions and views on the matter.. If u want to talk about ANYTHING on the matter just drop me a message =) n ill be sure to help if i can

First of all I think you should try and figure it out if you want to be in an intimate relationship with her or if you just love her as a really close friend and admire her. If you can at all, try talking to her about it. I hope things work out for you either way love x

This is the same with me except the girl i think i love hates me :( Im interest 2 see wat people have to say

i agree with the whole bringing up gay people from a show just talk about the show tila tequila and open up the subject and see her response. if she's completely against it then just keep ur friendship but if she seems open about it, randomly ask her what she is and if she's like im straight be like u would never hook up with a girl and if she says no.. then i guess she's not but if she says she would then there's ur access :) good luck

Well you might be bi but you never knew it before because you never fell in love with anybody. Best friends are usually the ones people fall in love with b/c they understand you and love you for who you are and are always there for you. Maybe your not in love with her but think you are. that is something you are going to have to figure out yourself. Are you physically attracted to her or emotionally.

Hope this helps.

I've Felt The Exact Same Way About A Friend Of Mine Who Was A Girl, But She Was Straight. I Told Her, & She Was Cool With It. She Didn't Judge Me How I Thought She Would. But After A While, I Relised It Was Just A Phase With This Girl. You Might Not Want To Tell Her Face To Face, Maybe Write A Letter Telling Her How You Feel. Or Even Bring It Up In A Convosation On The Phone. That Way You Don't Get To See Her Reaction, Weather Good Or Bad :] x

heyy,
yeah i have had this stiuation happen to me. But i wasent in your position. I was the other girl. see in life you have to learn to take risks because you dont know how things are going to end up. When my friend told me about this we didnt end up together, but we deff became closer friends. Good luck to you hunny.

p.s. Dont listen you reply #8.

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