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The Teen Anxiety community is focused on teens who are suffering from or concerned about anxiety. Teenagers commonly experience many different forms of stress as they continually face new situations. The purpose of the community is to help facilitate teens communication, and in the process share ideas, and develop the knowledge, tools and techniques that may effectively...

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I have liked this girl for about 2 and half years. I have known her since grade school. We were in band together for 5 years and in the same class for about 3 years straight. So she does know me. I had such a hard time talking to her and I eventually told her by getting her flowers and telling her that I liked her. This caught her completely off guard. She said she just wanted to be friends. I asked her if I could call her (Backup a little bit) and that turned out to be a total disaster. I spent another year trying to get the courage to talk to her. I managed to clear things up almost exactly a year later and I had made great progress. A few months later when school started I had no problem talking to her as a friend and about normal things such as what was going on at school, how our summers were, etc. Then recently I heard her friends talking about setting her up with someone. This really offended me and I felt I had to defend my feelings. I snapped and I said if you set her up with someone, Ill kill you. The very next day, I was talking to her as usual and I asked her for her cell phone number. She gave it to me without hesitation. A week later I tried calling her. She didnt answer so I stopped trying after two tries. I tried again and again. I panicked and I ended up calling her at least 10-15 times. I know that wasnt right and I did it in a state of panic and at the time I couldnt think straight. The next day we got in a text message war. To make a long story short, she completely rejected me, telling me that she doesnt like me, she never will, and to leave her alone. Then the school got involved and was resolved without much conflict. I dont ever want that to happen again. I want to apologize. And now all of a sudden, out of no where she now has a boyfriend. This guy looks like a caveman, a hippie, and on drugs. I know this guy from a class. He is trash and his friends are trash. He only cares about what she looks like. She who once was a little flower in the corner is now melting all over this guy. She is not the same girl that I knew. She is not acting like herself. All of this has happened within three weeks of each other. It is all happening at once and seeing them together makes me want to puke. I still want to apologize and try to still be friends with her. If she refuses, what should I do? Do I get everything off my chest? Do I tell her my real opinion? Is there anything I can do to break up the relationship or do I have no choice but to wait? Im so confused. What should I do because she really means a lot to me?

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well, i've been in the same situation...except i'm a girl, and it was over a boy. i liked him for like two years and then he told me he didn't like me. it was devestating. now he has a girlfriend. it bothered me at first. but you know, i learned not to get too obsessed. everything happens for a reason. maybe she just isn't meant for you. i know that really hurts, i'm sorry, but sometimes things just happen. you'll find someone else in the end and then she'll be the jealous one, mad at herself for letting someone like you go. that guy i used to like? i don't even know who he is anymore. he's changed, it's all about his girlfriend! but you know, i went out with one of my guy frineds last year and that was a mess! i ended up breaking his heart because he really loved me and i didn't love him back, i just couldn't! it wasn't anyone's fault, it's just the way it was. i know you care about her, but if you're in school still, you have loads of time to find someone. chances are you won't marry someone you meet now. you'll meet someone, not that i can promise anything, but i bet you will! you sound like a really sweet guy! good luck!

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Yes I agree what you should let it go.Pushing yourself on someone is a bad way to start a relationship.You deserve to be accepted the way you are.Move on .Heal and find someone else.If you keep trying to stay in hersphere she might get creeped out.
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