My boyfrind lost a baby to SIDS 10 years ago. He still blames himself, says if he had let his wife put Adam to bed it wouldn't have happened, or if he'd gone up to him earlier he'd still be here today. I count myself very lucky that I have never been through the pain of losing a child, but I don't know how to support him come to terms with it, and help him see that it's not his fault. Please help, he still lies awake on a night, and I know he's thinking of Adam, but I don't know what to say or do to help him, and it breaks my heart to see him in this much pain and know there's nothing I can say or do. I need advice on how to support him and help him understand his loss.
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