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Sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) is any sudden and unexplained death of an apparently healthy infant aged one month to one year. SIDS is responsible for roughly 50 deaths per 100,000 births in the US.

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Does anyone have a certian song that will just almost numb you when you hear it?? Last night I was happily watching Americal Idol when right at the end, they played I Can Only Imagine, this was played at the end of Owen's funeral. Well I laid there on the couch and my whole body froze and I just started to CRY. This song is on his website too, http://owen-lingnau.memory-of.com/About.aspx I would love to hear which songs are real special to other people that remind them of their angels.
Also, if you go on Owen's site, go to the songlist and listen to the Cradle of Wings one, it is very suiting for our losses and was played during the funeral slideshow. I STILL can't listen to it, 20 months later........
Also, if you go on Owen's site, go to the songlist and listen to the Cradle of Wings one, it is very suiting for our losses and was played during the funeral slideshow. I STILL can't listen to it, 20 months later........
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Here Without You lyrics
A hundred days have made me older
Since the last time that I saw your pretty face
A thousand lies have made me colder
And I don't think I can look at this the same
But all the miles that separate
Disappear now when I'm dreaming of your face
I'm here without you baby
But you're still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time
I'm here without you baby
But you're still with me in my dreams
And tonight it's only you and me, yeah
The miles just keep rollin'
As the people leave their way to say hello
I've heard this life is overrated
But I hope that it gets better as we go, oh yeah yeah
I'm here without you baby
But you're still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time
I'm here without you baby
But you're still with me in my dreams
And tonight girl it's only you and me
Everything I know and anywhere I go
It gets hard but it won't take away my love
And when the last one falls, when it's all said and done
It gets hard but it won't take away my love, whoa
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But you're still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time
I'm here without you baby
But you're still with me in my dreams
And tonight girl it's only you and me, yeah oh yeah oh
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this one is on his wibsite
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this one I would sing to Joshua and he would hush crying....other songs just wouldnt do it but this one would do it every time.....
I also like the phil collins You'll be in my heart....it is on his site too.....
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- With Hope by Steven Curtis Chapman
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- I Can Only Imagine by Mercy Me
I burned a cd with his songs on it and I listen to it all the time. It is almost comforting to me especially when I am having a melt down. I remember the night of his funeral my husband and I played it as we went to sleep.
In my dreams you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul there is a hole that can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope cause you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
And though it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever in my heart
In my plans I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul there is a hole that can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope and you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
And though it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever in my heart
God knows I want to hold you, see you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven and someday I will again
Please know you're not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
And though it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever in my heart
I am a mess whenever I hear it.
It is my favorite. I listen to it on a daily basis.
I also am a big Mariah Carey fan and I love all of her old songs too.
Here are the lyrics.
If i beg and if i cry
Would it change the sky tonight
Will it give me sunlight
Should i wait for you to call
Is there any hope at all
Are you drifting by
When i think about it
I know that i was never held or even cared
The more i think about it
The less that i was able to share with you
I try to reach for you, i can almost feel you
You're nearly here
And then you disappear
(disappear, disappear, disappear)
You disappear
(disappear, disappear, disappear)
And then i lie all by myself
I see your face, i hear your voice
My heart stays faithful
And time has come and time has passed
If it's good it's got to last
It feels so right
When i think about it
I know that i was never held or even cared
The more i think about it
The less that i was able to share with you
I try to reach for you, i can almost feel you
You're nearly here
And then you disappear
(disappear, disappear, disappear)
You disappear
(disappear, disappear, disappear)
You, you disappear
I missed all the signs
One at a time you were ready
What did i know starting our lives
No my love, i'm ready to shine
When i think about it
I know that i was never held or even cared
The more i think about it
The less that i was able to share with you
I try to reach for you, i can almost feel you
You're nearly here
And then you disappear
You disappear, you disappear
You disappear, disappear
seriously you may wanna grab a kleenex if you read these.......
JOHN WAITE
Missing You lyrics (this is on his memorial site)
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Every time I think of you
I always catch my breath
And I'm still standing here and you're miles away
And I'm wondering why you left
And there's a storm that's raging
Through my frozen heart tonight
I hear your name in certain circles
And it always makes me smile
I spend my time thinking about you
And it's almost driving me wild
And there's a heart that's breaking down this long-distance line tonight
I ain't missing you at all
Since you've been gone away.
I ain't missing you
No matter what I might say.
There's a message in the wire
And I'm sending you this signal tonight.
You don't know how desperate I've become
And it looks like I'm losing this fight.
In your world I have no meaning
Though I'm trying hard to understand
And it's my heart that's breaking down this long-distance line tonight.
I ain't missing you at all
Since you've been gone away.
I ain't missing you
No matter what my friends say.
And there's a message that I'm sending out like a telegraph to your soul
And if I can't bridge this distance
Stop this heartbreak overload
I ain't missing you at all
Since you've been gone away
No I ain't missing you no matter what my friends say
I ain't missing you
I ain't missing you
I can lie to myself.
And there's a storm that's raging
Through my frozen heart tonight.
I ain't missing you at all
Since you've been gone away
Chasing Cars Lyrics
Artist(Band):Snow Patrol
(this song makes me think of the life my 2 younger sons should have had)
We'll do it all
Everything
On our own
We don't need
Anything
Or anyone
If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?
I don't quite know
How to say
How I feel
Those three words
Are said too much
They're not enough
If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?
Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life
Let's waste time
Chasing cars
Around our heads
I need your grace
To remind me
To find my own
If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?
Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life
All that I am
All that I ever was
Is here in your perfect eyes, they're all I can see
I don't know where
Confused about how as well
Just know that these things will never change for us at all
If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?
I Don't Want To Miss A Thing lyrics
Aerosmith (first song on the radio when I held Nick for the first time)
I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
While you're far away and dreaming
I could spend my life in this sweet surrender
I could stay lost in this moment forever
Well, every moment spent with you
Is a moment I treasure
(Chorus)
I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream would never do
I'd still miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
Lying close to you
Feeling your heart beating
And I'm wondering what you're dreaming
Wondering if it's me you're seeing
Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together
And I just wanna stay with you
In this moment forever, forever and ever
(chorus)
I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream would never do
I'd still miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
I don't wanna miss one smile
I don't wanna miss one kiss
Well, I just wanna be with you
Right here with you, just like this
I just wanna hold you close
Feel your heart so close to mine
And just stay here in this moment
For all the rest of time
(Chorus)
Don't wanna close my eyes
Don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream would never do
'Cause I'd still miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream would never do
I'd still miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
Don't wanna close my eyes
Don't wanna fall asleep, yeah
I don't wanna miss a thing
I don't wanna miss a thing
your beautiful by james blunt
daddy girl by red solvine
I hope you dance by leann wollmack
Where you would be today those where the songs played at emalee's furnal but I also cry when I hear One more day and I belive there country songs