I am so sorry about this ladies but I have to vent to someone......Ok here goes I work 2nd shift and hubby works 1st so we dont have to put our 2 1/2 y/o daughter in daycare (not that anything is wrong with it) well when I took my position my boss said I could bring her because the time I have to be here and the time hubby gets off is 30 mins and we work less than a mile apart so he said it was OK ....well now a girl that works in different department wants to bring her newborn for her whole shift!!!!so because she was told NO she went to the even higher boss and he said no that I have to stop bringing my daughter...I was told this about 10 mins till 5 ......I tried several day cares in between working ......the few I got in touch with wont keep a child for just an hour or so I dont know what I will do......and the family we have that is close we have safety issues at her house (she has arthritis and has meds that are in easy open bottles IN REACH of my daughter...she tells me that she will watch her and not let her get it but I cant trust that you all know how swift a 2 y/o old can get something while your back is turned 10 secs or less ) hell my daughter just got burned when I left the room for 30 secs just this week......it can happen QUICK.....another relative has a pistol that is kept just laying around (she is very afraid of anyone walking down her street and such so if she is alone it is close by) so she is a NO ....then another had a car wreck a year ago and cant use one of her hands and has very minimal use of the other...basically she tried to fix her some juice one day and couldnt open the sippy cup so if she cant do that then No (and she cant lift her she still walks on a walker from the accident hse just dont get around well...if my daughter took off running...say they went outside she could do nothing !!) the rest are 20-25 miles in the opposite direction of mine and hubbys work so that is a NO with gas prices the way they are for just an hour.....I dont know what to do......hell call in and tell thim I cant show up until I find day care and tell them to let her (the one who started this )work my postion until I can get someone to watch her thanks for letting me vent!!!!!
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