I have been gone for a looooong while thanks to hard drive issues, like it would not turn on. lol. i have missed this place. DS is my safe haven. i have not had my computer since Christmas eve. i got it back yesterday. i have been going through trying to catch up on lost time........ i am upset. there is alot of things going on that i am NOT involved in, but none the less they are all over my safe haven. i have been a part of DS since September 2007 right after Claire passed, i would have ran for the hills if i were to read the posts that are up right now when i first joined. they are ugly, destructive, and hurtful. Look.......we have all suffered a GREAT loss, we are all here for one reason. To have a safe haven. a group of women and a couple of men gathered together to share a common bond and grow from this nightmare. this is not what DS is all about. it is about compassion, problem solving and healing....... try to make everything you do here for those goals. we are all different, there will be differences, its ok. just understand we all came here for support.
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