Just remember you are watching TV and not real life even on reality shows.

Some days are tuffer than others and even the littlest thing seems hard to accomplish. I like to start a journal of what I need to do the next day in the order of the most important first so I get those out of the way and the rest can usually wait until I am less stress. Definitely sit down with the rest of the family and express your feelings. Maybe assuming they are old enough they can help out a little more when you are have a more stressed day.

I would like to share this writing with you.

Feeling Crazy
Feeling crazy may be a mark of sanity in my situation.

~Anne Wilson Schaef~
Several years ago, after I had written sand published womens Reality, I visited an old friend in New York City. After talking a while, she said, youve changed (Shes an analyst and she always noticed things!)Reality, I said, How? (I secretly hoped that I had changed After all, we had not seen each other for several years and if I hadnt changed, I was in deep trouble!) You are not longer afraid of being crazy, she observed Was I afraid I was crazy? I asked, somewhat startled. Yes, she said quietly. Well, after writhing Womens Reality, I realized that I have constantly been told that I am crazy by my society when I put forth my clearest, sanest, most precious perceptions. Now I accept that I am crazy in the eyes of and addictive society and I feel very sane with my craziness.

WATCH OUT FOR WHO IS DEFINING CRAZY.

You may enjoy this book. Meditations For WOMEN Who Do Too Much. Anne Wilson Schaef. It is set up for a daily reading for support to women so you dont have to spend hours reading because you cant put the book down.

Being a mother is the most natural job in the world, what isn't natural is what misunderstanding people will demand of you. There is no need to multitask, all you need to do is be Mom. Find that love and peace and let that be your only concern.

you just have to sit down think and be calm when things get hard try doing something creative like taking boxing classes and if that doesn't work out you can always use your friends for support and to keep you standing on two legs.

I am not a mom but I totally understand where you are coming from. I work full time and care for a sick parent. I feel like everything is an effort and even the simplest thing takes me longer than usual to do...I will never understand how other people make everything look so easy.

I do not have children of my own. I am a great big ball of unnecessary stress. I don't know how you mothers do it. I would lose my mind. I am sure you are a wonderful mother. If you were not you wouldn't be questioning this.

I'm glad I'm not alone. Sometimes I feel like my head spinning and I don't know which way is up. I will find myself in a situation and I won't even remember how I got there. With 4 kids and taking care of 4 kids under the age of 2, and keeping up with my 3 kids sports, school work and housework alot of times I feel like things just shouldn't be this difficult. But my safety net is my husband. He is a rock for me and is so good to me that sometimes I feel I really don't deserve him. BUt what works for me is my children. Even though at times I think being a mother is the hardest jod a persone will ever have one of my kids will do something or say something and my heart melts and then I realiz why I am here. My 7 year old son said to me the other day that I was wonderful because I let him pick out our Christmas tree. That was a beautiful moment for me and it seemed as though time stood still. So if you can take some time in the midst of your chaos and realize you will never get these moments back then maybe just maybe it won't seem as bad as you thoght. Have a wonderful day.

TV is entertainment. Your not superwomen...ask for help and take things one at a time.