My twins are boy and girl and are 4 months old, but were almost two months early, so technically they are 2 months old. I am home for the first time in years (these are our first children). I am used to working outside the home. Now I am a full time mom and my husband still works full time. However, he is no help at all. I feel like my life has changed completely, but he is doing everything he can to make sure his life stays as close the how it was before children as possible. He even sleeps in another room so he can have a full night's sleep(I am in the same room as the twins). I haven't slept in forever. I resent him so much, but feel like I can't tell him how I feel, as we keep arguing over the same thing: He works hard (labor-wise) and needs his down time. The thing that makes me the maddest is when one of the babies is crying, he just sits there. Doesn't the sad sound of one of his children make him want to comfort them? Or is he so cold-hearted and selfish? Help!
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