Stillbirth Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.
stillbirth on april 14th, boy named Fenway. I was due on the 12th went to to be induced on the 14th, they found no heartbeat. I hurt so bad.
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I am so so sorry for your loss.. i just had the same thing happen to me on the 20th..one week ago today...i feel like i am losing it.. i am trying to have faith and hang on.. i am sure i know exactly what you are feeling and we can console one another..
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I have been living through stillbirth for almost a year now, and I just want to tell you both how sorry I am for your losses. I am not going to lie to you and tell you oh it will get easier. Reality for me is that it gets different, everyday is different. Some are good and some are bad, but you keep on living and surviving because you have too. I have been so up and down in this, that I honestly don't know which direction either is anymore, but I am still here, and I don't give up. I hope that you both continue to stay strong, and don't give up. You will find the day will come that you wake up and smile, and the world is not so horrible, and you will continue to love your babies and hold them in your hearts. Good luck, I wish you the best.
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I am so sorry for both of your losses. I lost my son 12 wks ago. Yes, I know the hurt. I have found wonderful friends here on DS that have helped me every step of the way - reach out to them, they understand and will support you. It breaks my heart that you have to endure this pain. Please know I'm here for you and you are not alone. Sending you prayers and hugs!
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I lost my triplets this past December, my first was stillborn, and my other two passed shortly after birth. I'm so sorry that anyone has to go through this. It's not fair, and it's never ever going to make sense. Take time to grieve for your little one. I am not an expert by any means, but you will in time start to heal. Take one day at a time, at your own pace. You are in my thought and prayers, and again I'm so sorry...
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