It is totally normal to want a baby very badly in the beginning. I have actually thought about tricking my ex (when we were still together) into the same thing but realized I couldn't do that. You are not crazy. I really hope that you and your husband can come to an agreement soon and you can begin to TTC.

You're not crazy... I think this is all very normal. My husband and I had decided to wait till after the holidays (and after a trip to Disney with our 3 year old) but as soon as the holidays passed I started checking for ovulation. I think everyone is different and it's up to you both to decide when you're ready. I felt totally obsessed with getting a period after we had Morgan so that I could plan in my head when I might actually be able to get pregnant and bring home a baby. Hang in there and if you need to talk, I'm here. Hugs.

I agree that what you are feeling is normal and also your husbands reaction is normal. You need to be careful and make sure you both are really in the same spot of trying again. Take care of your self grieve your beautiful baby. My husband and I we to a therapist after we lost Esther just to be sure that our marriage would be strong we didn't want to lose our baby and each other. I know that STRONG need to hold another infant to HAVE your child. HUGS sweetie.-

It is very normal to want to try again right away, it may be that he isn't ready and he just doesn't want to tell you. Men deal with these things so much differently then we do, they generally shut down or blame things on us. They think that if they show any sort of emotion that it will make them weak or something. I hope that you guys can sit down and talk and make a deal, my hubby refused to try again and so I went and bought ovulation tests and showed them to him and he finally gave in. So you just need to connect and conversate about it.

I also wanted to get pregnant immediately after we lost Liam. But honestly now I can say I am glad we didn't. I really needed time to grief. I don't think I could have handled being the emotional mess I was and being pregnant at the same time. Now that 6 months have passed, we are going to ttc. We are still both very scared, but I don't think that will ever pass. My husband was also telling me that he will be ready when I am. He is scared, but he knows he can't change that. The doctors were also saying that it's best to wait for 2 regular periods to reduce the chances of miscarriage. I hope you come to an agreement soon and start ttc. I am always here if you want to talk.

The most important parts are make sure your body and mind are ready because if not your body will not let a precious baby grow inside you if its not ready and hasnt healed correctly. My dr said to wait at least 3 periods. Also make sure your mind is healthy and you have had time to grieve. My husband and I have waited 6months to ttc. I still am grieving everyday. Please make sure you and your husband are on the same page. Go through this next pregnancy together united strong.You dont need the extra stress. Hugs Candy

It is normal to want a baby so bad. I still have such a strong desire and also a lot of fear. I know since time has gone on for me my desire is still strong, but I am also in need of more time to grieve. Everyone is different, for my husband and I we decided to wait at least until after January to ttc again because of the fact that we wanted our Colin to have his own little birthday month and that our doctor said at least 3 cycles. Take care of yourself and your husband first. I know my husband and I are seeing a therapist because I am still dealing with all kinds of battles in my head. A lot of fears. I think realizing my husband grieves differently than I do has also been a bit difficult for me. I often have to stop myself and remember that he is going through a loss as well, even though he didn't carry Colin for 9 months, it was still his child too. Men grieve very differently than we do, but you have to do what is best for both of you. I hope you both can sit and talk about it soon and reach an agreement. Please take time for yourself. We are all here for you with whatever you need. HUGS to you and your family.

I know exactly how you feel. You have EVERYTHING for a baby, just not a baby. It is truly the worst feeling in the world. I am going through the same emotions that you are. It has only been a month since I lost my little one and I am obsessed with getting pregnant again right away. My OB said that we could try as early as mid February. My hubby was very reluctant, but now he is completely on board. Before he was on board, I was also drumming up ways to trick him. LOL. However, even though my desire is overwhelming, when I think of being pregnant again so soon, I feel incredibly anxious. I think that my rational side says that I need a little more time. I want to try and be as sane as possible because i know that the next time around will be very nerve racking. Just do what's right for you and your husband, and when you are both on board, then it will all fall into place.

I think your reaction is totally normal. Our baby Lily was unplanned but after we lost her, I was (and still am) obsessed with another. Your feelings are entirely legitimate. Take care

I have also lost my son Noah a month ago.I too feel the urge to try again.You are not alone in your quest for motherhood.We all also want to bring home a healthy baby and feel confident that we are the moms for the job.Have faith in yourself and in your husband to know when the time is right. Becky

How are you doing?

I think we might try this cycle. It is the first since my baby's stillbirth though. I think we are both ready. I hope you two can get on the same page. ((HUGS))