Quick back story: My best friend has always been a total bitch. She's an spoiled, immature, brat. To be honest I don't know how we ever became friends in the first place. She's funny but that's about it. I'm sick of having to weather her mood swings, of her talking down to me and everyone else (she's sooooooo condesending). I'm super sick of her constant complaining (she's always a victim) and she's never ever ever wrong. And now she's pregnant and I just can't take her whining and complaining. "I feel sick, I want wine, I want to smoke." and "I feel like my life is over." "No one wants to be my friend anymore. No one invites me to anything anymore." (which IS NOT true). I have invited her to several things which she's bailed on, oh wait she showed up late to one BBQ and left after 10min because she was too hot or tired. I just want to cut ties. My husband hates her, and I'm basically her only friend. All her other friends have cut ties with her. So ending the friendship will be messy because she'll play victim and won't be civil - can you say DRAMA QUEEN? Anyway she's pregnant and I can't be involved, too painful, too soon, too much. I hope that this is the beginning of the end. I know she wants me to plan a baby shower for her and I won't (can you even imagine??) I don't think I can even attend. I just hope we go our separate ways. Our lives are going to be very different and that will help. Ugh, sorry this is more of a vent. Any advice on how to leave this unhealthy friendship without being the bad guy would be appreciated. Thanks!
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