I have been going to a support group for about 8 months now. I have found it extrememly helpful to be able to talk to parents who can understand what I am feeling. At the last meeting I went to I brought up that I would like to discuss guilt at our next meeting and everyone seemed to agree. I am curious about how other mothers have dealt with their guilt over the loss of their babies. The guilt I feel over Abbi not being here is not what I did wrong but more what I didn't do to keep her safe. I would love to hear if anyone else has felt the same guilt and how/what they did to come to terms with it.
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