I had a whole messgae typed out hit something and it disappeared. I could cry !!! Short version of my problem is my hubbys two kids came on their visiation this weekend and as usual he fobbed all the cre of them off on me. Meanwhile his kids ignore my son . My son and hubby sdaughter are the same age and bot h ahve the same learning disability. She is almost age appropriate but my son is still in diapers and is a non verbal. He is a lovely sweet little boy. Yesterday while we were a playground hubbys kids basically led all the other kids in running away from my son and calling him names. Their father did not intervene and it broke my heart to see my son try to catch up not undertsanding they were riducling him. I took him away immediately and hubby followed and amde his kids apologize. HE shoudl ahve intervened and stopped them. It was HIS fault. I think he knew if my son was not there the kids may have started on his daughter. Our kids have Downs so its a very obvious disability. I was really boiling with him. To cap it all his son tried to balem my son for pushing the girl off the slide. My son was no where near at the time and the girl admitted he was not there. I could see it all from the kitch window. Again my hubby made only a token effort to get his son to apologise. I am sick to death of it all. In the last two years I have had to cook clean do the bed time stories baths etc while he is on the internet. I then started to visit my adult children for the visitation weekends but cant keep it up as flights cost money. MY hubby is at his parents house tonight for a funeral and I have just gotten off the phone with him. I have told him that this is it. I have reached breaking point. I have had his ex wife say hobbile things about me and send me threatening texts in the past and I have never said anything back. I have always tried to do the right thing. I am the only one though trying to do the right thing and I have had enough. I just want out at this stage. Its not worth it anymore. He of course begged me to reconsider and he woudl try harder. I really liked those kids and worked hard with them. If it was not for me the girls asmatha would never have been treated for example. I am now seriously starting to dislike these kids and thats terrinle because they are just basically good kids. Its their parents who are the problem. MY own ex hubby has an afffair with the woman he is with now and broke up our marriage I could have bene bitter but was not I was just glad this women had a s on with special needs too and could understand my sons needs. She is very good with my son by all accounts and I never have to interfere. I also encouraged my older kids to be friendly with her and my ex. He left me not them. So I just cant understand this at all. I know that I have been an idiot and have been taken for a ride . I could live with that but this open hositility towards my vunerable son is not acceptable and I want out. Sorry for the long vent but I really dont thing I am being unreasonable here am i ???
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