So I am married and I have a daughter at home and hea has a son and daughter whom live with us... So the issue I tell my husband I am tired of him allowing his kids to get by with everything. Because this is creating another problem because my daughter wants to do the same and be the way they are since they don't get in trouble for being disrespectful, fighting, cussing...etc... which I fuss at my daughter for and of course I get the it's not fair... and I can't blame her cause it's not... So I tell my husband I just can't take NO more that he has got to do something now if he doesn't things are only going to get worse when they are older. So then he says well what u want me to do give them back to their mom. And that was never even said I said I wanted his to disipline tham not give them back to her Because that would be the worst thing for them She has no job no money no nothing and we already by them everything she does nothing so GOD only knows what it would be like for them with her we would worry if they are ok ALL the time. SO why can he not understand that all I want is some peace and that he needs to teach them boundaries and respect now before it's too late. Why would he turn it around on me that I don't want them there??? I have asked him and he says that is the way I make him feel bbecause I let them get to me cause they are just kids... well TRUE BUT kids should NOT be allowed to say and do as they please either and there be no rules or punishment. Some one please tell me am I in the wrong for demanding they act like somebody are should I encourge them to do whatever when ever and just be ok with it???
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