My husband and I got into an argument the other night. I feel totally frustrated and I do not know what I can do at this point. I basically told him that I felt he made exuses for his daughters behavior and if he didn't change his ways with them they would grow up like Paris Hilton thinking everything is someone else's fault. I fell in love with him because he is the most amazing Dad I have ever known. I guess I was blind to the fact that there needed to be some bounderies to his parenting that I ignored. I still think he is amazing I just think he could have a little more balance in his parenting. I have 3 children of my own and I am far from perfect but, I do feel that they know how to take responsibility when they have done something wrong and they don't lie to my face when in fact they have done something. Anyway....We got into an argument when the girls were here they were in the living room and apparently overheard some of the things I said. They called their Aunt to come pick them up and they left. I feel confused because we were not yelling uncontrollably and it didn't seem so bad that they thought they had to leave? There mother and Aunt are very much into drama. My husband feels that perhaps his wife is struggling with borderline personality disorder??? So they went to the Aunts house then the Aunt told my husband he could not come on her property to talk to the girls. Now his Ex Wife says they are not allowed over here while I'm here? I live here???? I texted the girls and have apologized for hurting their feelings and said I would like to be able to come to a better understanding with them. Then the ex wife texted my husband and told him to tell me not to text them or email them? We are the ones who pay for their cell phones in the first place? Anyone out there that could give me some advice? I love them and they are not bad children at all. I thought I would be a great step mother? I am fun, easygoing, love to laugh with all of my children. I just want some sort of congruency in what we expect from all 5 children when they are around.
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