Step Families Support Group
Traditionally, a stepfamily is the family one acquires when a parent enters a new marriage, whether the parent was widowed or divorced. This community is focused on many of the relationships and issues that may arise within stepfamilies where you may find answers from some members and you may help other members with their questions.
My boyfriend is in the process of taking his ex to court for #1 get rights to his son if anything happens to her and #2 get a fixed child support and visitiation. Up until last Thursday he had been giving her $150 a week ($600 monthly) and he hasn't once got to see his son for more then a half hour when he goes to gives her the money. We have set up more then once for him to get his son and she always comes up with countless numbers of excuses. He finally got tired of it and is now completely leaving it in the courts hands. Right now she avoiding being served, they've been there 5 times and nobody seems to be home. What can I expect to happen next and in the future?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
By the way, if you can(have your b-friend)...e-mail her and discuss visitation. Ask her why she will not alow him to see his son. You BF needs to take those e-mails to court as proof of what the ex does. Also, have him keep a journal and bring that to court as well. You need to cover your butt just incase the ex pulls a fast one on your bf.
He has been keeping all the incidents wrote down, mostly just what she said since he don't remember what he says... they have been talking through Myspace messages so they have that too.... it goes from him wanting to see his son to her saying you should've thought about that before you thought it was ok for him to starve (he stopped paying 2 weeks ago cause he don't get to see his son) to him him practically begging her to her saying she never told him he couldn't see him
My ex did that to me-even though I did let him see his daughter. The judge made him pay over 2,000 dollars in back pay.
My husband has sole custody of his son and his ex wife didn't pay her child support for over 3 years. She thinks NOONE can make her do anything and said f*ck it!
When we took her back to court because of it last year, the judge gave her 6 months to pay off what she owed from the last 3 years.
Good luck to you!
~bella
Why can't she just do what she should do and let him see his son?