I'm worried that my SD may have lots of problems. I have no children of my own yet so I don't really know how 5 year olds "normally" behave. I've had my SD since July of 08. Since that time, she has not seen Bio mom, she does talk to her occasionally on the phone..and the conversations go exactly like this...hi princess, i love you, i miss you, here your sissy wants to talk to you. So even if I talk to bio mom about issues that should be addressed, she never wants to appear like the "bad guy" My husband is away alot for his job with the government but when he is home, he is great with SD. SD is usually very anxious to please, tries very hard, but in spite of all of that, she is constantly getting into our personal things, telling lies, and just being stubborn. I have used timeout so many times I think i may send here there in my sleep. Now, shes grounded. I am so tired of repeating myself and then when I confront her about something seh has done, she stares at me blankly...and her answers are ALWAYS...because i was being bad, because I wasnt listening, or becuase I wasnt following directions. It doesnt matter what I ask her, these are the only answers I get back. Anyone else have these problems?
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