Some of you may have read my other post regarding my two SD's? One is 15 the other 13. We have gotten along pretty well the past year and half their Dad and I have been together, but now that we are married there is some real "drama queen" behavior going on? My husband and I have gone to counseling, read books, etc.... So I feel like I'm trying to figure this whole thing out but I have not been able to come to a good conclusion. My husband and I got into an argument about 3 weeks ago now and the girls left our house because they said it stressed them out too bad? Now they have not returned back to our house since. They know their Dad totally loves and cherishes them and I feel they are punishing him because I told him they needed more manners, and needed to learn how to treat others like they would like to be treated! In the past three weeks each week they have came up with a new exuse not to come over. First week they said, I said that they ruined his life? (Never said anything like this ever and never would!) Second week they said, but Daddy she called us "Little Bitches" (again never said that or never would) This week there exuse is that I came after them???? (Again this is a false accusation and my Husband was right in the room with us and knows this is not true?) The 15 SD told me to shut up when I was talking to their Dad and I ran to the door and said to her don't you ever talk to me that disrepectful! I have never hurt either of them nor would I ever dream of doing so. I have 3 biological children and I have never came after them. Don't get me wrong I have given my own children a spanking before, but I am definitely not a Mother who would come after a child to hurt or even scare them in that way! I am not sure what the solution is here? I'm getting more frustrated the more exuses they give him and I know it's killing him not to get to see his girls? We usually have them every week 2 days one week and 5 the next so three weeks is a very long time for them to be away. I love them too and I'm so flustered that we can't figure this out! Any positive advice would be greatly appreciated!:-)
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