So I've posted a few times regarding my step situation. Long story short, BM is gone for rehab for the next year or so... I've used this time to really get to know the kids without any interruptions from her. Things are going GREAT! I'm really developing some good relationships with these kids and they want to move in with my boyfriend and I (He has them full time now and he's getting full custody). The 7 year old daughter asked me the other day if she could call me "mom"! I know things won't always be this wonderful but I really am falling in love with these kids and they are so starved for motherly love that I really can't do any wrong right now. I even had to discipline for the first time the other day and it went fine! No hard feelings after because I was very cautious about how far I went with my words. Anywhoo... just wanted to share.
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