my husband had a four year affair and as a result a baby, well now 2 years old. we have a son who is only 4 months older than his other child and i am devastated. i would love some advice from someone who has gone thru this first hand or know someone who has. he does not really have a relationship with the child, he pays support and visits her at her school about once or twice a week. he wants me to be a part of the kids life and i nor my son has met her yet. i am not sure how to do this. i had said that i would be a part of her life but everytime i think i am ready i fall apart all over again. it is not the child she is innocent, though a reminder of all the hell i have been thru, but i hate her mother. she told me that he told her he was never going to leave his family and that he was afraid she would tell me, so she used that to her advantage. she admitted to me that she thought having his baby would make him change his mind and leave our son and me for her and her 4 kids(all 4 have diff. dads) i hold both of them 100 % responsible for what has happened, it was one thing for them to be screwing, but i can not believe they made a baby.......please help.
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