I WAS JUST WONDERING IF ANY OF YOU HERE HAVE A STEPCHILD THAT IS THE PRODUCT OF AN AFFAIR. I AM TRYING TO ACCEPT THE CHILD MY HUSBAND CREATED WHILE CARRYING ON AN AFFAIR. WE WERE TOGETHER HAVE NEVER SEPERATED BUT HE WAS CHEATING AND THE WOMAN GOT PREGNANT. HE ASKED HER TO HAVE AN ABORTION AND AT FIRST SHE AGREED, BUT ADMITTED TO ME HERSELF THAT SHE THOUGHT HAVING HIS BABY WOULD MAKE HIM BE WITH HER. I WAS ALREADY 4 MONTHS AHEAD OF HER(PREGNANT) SHE ALREADY HAD 3 KIDS BY 3 DIFFERENT MEN, NOW 4 AND 4. IF ANYONE HERE HAS HAD OR ARE HAVING THIS HAPPEN TO THEM PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. I DO NOT BLAME THE CHILD SHE IS COMPLETELY INNOCENT, BUT SHE IS A CONSTANT REMINDER OF ALL THE PAIN I HAVE BEEN GOING THRU IN THE PAST 8 MONTHS. HELP PLEASE
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