Ok, I'll try to make long story short. SD, 18, decides she doesn't like it at our house, we are too strict, so she moves to live with her mother (crackhead). 5 months later, she calls her dad and tells him she is pregnant and her mom is kicking her out. She is pregnant by a 26 yr old guy who lives in IL but was down for a 9 month training (national guard). Once training is up, he has no where to go, but wants to be with her. We told them they could move in with us, but that he would have to pay rent. He had no job, we helped him get a job with my brother, he would not show up, or show up really late, etc. Plus he never paid rent. Oh, and SD killed her car, and so we bought her another one...with the stipulation she would help pay for it. Nothing there either. After about 5 months of that, we had had enough of him mooching (and getting fired from his job, and not looking for another one)and told them that he had to leave, and that she was welcome to stay. He went back to IL (b/c he didn't want to look for a place here or a job) to live with his parents. Came back down when she was about to give birth. Gave birth and they packed up and left for IL the day that she was released from the hospital. Oh, and she had a job at pizza hut, but quit b/c the smell made her sick and never looked for another. Ok, fast forward to a year later, she calls dad and tells him she's tired of boyfriend and IL and wants to move back. They have been mooching off his parents this whole time. She worked at the Dollar General for most of the time, but he still did nothing but the guard stuff (one weekend a month). So she and the baby came down, lived with us for awhile, and got a job, and moved into an apartment. (we let her have the car back with the stipulation that she would help pay for it - still haven't gotten anything) Ex-boyfriend comes down to see baby, they reconnect and she's pregnant AGAIN. She works 20 hours a week TOPS, and has since she's been down here, not trying to better herself or anything. Hubby and I are getting ready to be in a situation where money will be tight, something has got to give. Should we put the big foot down and take the car, sell it and pay it off? She's due in July, ex-BF (or BF) is moving down here, has an apartment, and starts a job.
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