Step Families Support Group
Traditionally, a stepfamily is the family one acquires when a parent enters a new marriage, whether the parent was widowed or divorced. This community is focused on many of the relationships and issues that may arise within stepfamilies where you may find answers from some members and you may help other members with their questions.
ok me and my step mom have never gotten along. she used to not be as bad but growning up she was always meaner to me. she still reminds me im not as good as the other kids. she puts me down all the time.
she has been my step mom since i was 2 1/2 so its been awhile. but 2 summers ago my dad had an affair and while they spilt up when she found out i talked to my dad alot and the woman he was with. well during this time the woman went back to her husband and my dad didnt go back to her yet and well them my step-grandma died and well i called out there to see if i could come out and she called me a back stabbing little whore. .. i was 15 at this time..
and my dad and her have been back together for awhile and she still hates me to this day..i dont know what to do anymore. if i fight with her she wont let me see my brother and sisters... my dad wont stand upto her and i dont think i can handle it much longer
she has been my step mom since i was 2 1/2 so its been awhile. but 2 summers ago my dad had an affair and while they spilt up when she found out i talked to my dad alot and the woman he was with. well during this time the woman went back to her husband and my dad didnt go back to her yet and well them my step-grandma died and well i called out there to see if i could come out and she called me a back stabbing little whore. .. i was 15 at this time..
and my dad and her have been back together for awhile and she still hates me to this day..i dont know what to do anymore. if i fight with her she wont let me see my brother and sisters... my dad wont stand upto her and i dont think i can handle it much longer
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I think Khelene is right in that the best solution for now is to stay out of her way. I'd add that its easy enough to do what you have to do to please her. I.e. do the laundry on time, empty the trash, whatever you're supposed to be doing.
You didn't explain why she called you a "back stabber"? But its obvious she's got issues with you. It's pretty common for step-kids to try and break up their parent and step parent. Does she think you've been doing that? Or something else?
When things get tough remember this - "Even this shall come to pass".
Written from a religious viewpoint I think you'll benefit from this article. It's very on topic for you:
http://www.anabaptists.org/clp/youth/13-303.html
and well i cant stop contact when i turn 18 because i dont want to lose my brother and sisters
At first, I was angered that she did that. I questioned where her loyalty is. But she is a kid and she will try to be liked by just about everyone.
I cannot control her and neither can she control me. Point is, make the most of what you have. The past is the past, neither of you can unchange that.
Write her a letter about your feelings. If she does not respond, then it's her loss.
Goodluck.