IM SO FREAKING TIRED OF FIGHTING WITH MY HUSBAND ABOUT HIS DAUGHTER AND HER MOTHER. SHE HAS ONLY BEEN LIVING WITH US FOR A MONTH AND OUR RELATIONSHIP GETS WORSE EVERYDAY. SO THE MOM GAVE MY SD TO MY HUSBAND BECAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT HER ANYMORE AND THE STATE STILL TAKES CHILD SUPPORT OUT OF MY HUSBANDS CHECK UNTIL THEY GO BACK TO COURT. SO WHEN THE BIO MOM COMES AND PICKS HER UP EVERY OTHER WEEKEND SHE IS SUPPOSED TO GIVE US THE MONEY BACK. WELL YESTERDAY MY HUSBAND WENT AND DROPPED MY SD OFF WITH THE MOM AND SHE GAVE HIM MONEY WELL I CALL HIM LATER AND ASKED IF SHE GAVE HIM THE MONEY AND HE SAID YEA I ASKED HIM IF IT WAS ALL THERE AND HE FREAKED OUT ON ME AND SAID HE DIDNT COUNT IT WHY DOES IT MATTER ANYWAYS WHAT CAN HE DO NOW THAT SHES GONE? SO HE COUNTED IT AND SHE KEPT $20 OF IT. THAT MIGHT NOT SEEM LIKE MUCH BUT SHE DOESNT NEED TO KEEP OUR FREAKING MONEY SHES NOT EVEN PAYING CHILD SUPPORT HERSELF. THEN MY HUSBAND STILL DRIVES AN HOUR TO DROP HER OFF AND THE FREAKING BIO MOM ONLY DRIVES ABOUT TEN MINUTES HE WONT TELL HER TO MEET HIM IN THE MIDDLE. SO HE SPENT A HALF A TANK OF GAS TO BRING HER THERE AND COME BACK HOME THEN HE WILL HAVE TO DO IT AGAIN SUNDAY TO PICK HER UP. THAT IS $50 IN GAS AND THEN THE $20 SHE KEPT OF OUR CHILD SUPPORT MONEY. EVERYTIME I ASK HIM ANYTHING ABOUT HER HE FREAKS OUT AND SAYS I NEED TO GET OVER MY JEALOUSY. I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS FOREVER. I JUST DONT WANT TO LEAVE FOR MY UNBORN SONS SAKE.
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