I have recently had a conversation with my mother. We have been talking one of her ex - boyfriends who lives down to street. She will not tell me who my father is. If it's so hard to answer, what does that mean? The person who lives with us right now is horrible, I hate him so much. For 16 years I grew up with having to call this horrible person my dad or father or whatever. I just dont want the lies anymore.When I aske for a straight answer what I get is an avoiding answer. Everyday this week I tried to talk to this guy who lives down the street. He has a girlfriend who is a real snobb, she was over his house one day. Yestarday he wasn't home from work yet. I'm hoping a third times a charm. But what if he just lies to me too.. I don't want this to take control of my life, I just need to know. Oh and my brother has the same name as this guy, go figure... I remeber that when my mom got extremely angry with him recently she said, "He's nothing to you guys anyways." What's so wrong with me wanting to know? Do you think she should tell me the truth or should I just find out myself? This is kind of a touchy subject, I would apprietiate any and all support.
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