So I was chatting on msn with my 12 yr old SD today. She asked me to check out her piczo site ( it's web site page for kids) So i did. Looking thru all the pics of her and her friends I noticed something. One of her freinds was wearing "MY" shirt; that I have been missing since Christmas. I asked my SD shortly after Christmas ( after her visit with us and went home) if she had seen that shirt in her bag. Sometimes when I pack her up to go back home we are in a hurry and she might leave some of her socks and stuff behind or something of mine might go home with by accident. I carefully described the shirt to her and she knew exactly which one I was talking about cause she had commented on it at Christmas time. can you see where I going with this? So today when i was looking at these pics I of course put 2 and 2 together. I called her at home . She of course had a story about how she had no idea how that shirt got into her bag or how why her friend was even wearing it. I kind of second guessed my self and let her think i beleived her. I talked to her mom and told her about what happened. She said she thought that the shirt belonged to my SD cause my SD told her mom I "bought" it for her. i feel so betrayed. I told my SD that she can call me or msn me later if there is anything else she has to say to me. Her mom said she will make sure I get a letter of apolagy and my SD will have consquences. That's all good. it's just that when she comes over for the summer I won't be able to trust her. I think I'm gonna make her go with me everywhere I go. If I'm going to Wal-Mart, she's comin' with me. As for taking her shopping (which we usaully make a girls day) I won't be doing that either. Any clothes I would have bought her for school will just be cash for her mom to decide what to do with. I feel that there has to be consequence for her by me aswell. Even it isn't until this summer. Is that fair? My husband will support me no matter what. Anyway, just had to vent... thanks
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