I am new to this board and i am not sure where i really do belong.. Here is my situatuin, I am 37 and have bene with the same gy for the last 3ys. When we met he informed me he hsd a son whom at the time was 4 ys old. we sw him onevery oter weekend. then in July of the following yr (mind you he is 5 now she tell my Bf that she can no longer handle him that he will not listen to her it is out of control. Thathe needs to take him. So here I am it is my home , what was I supost to say No (knowing he would have a much better life here than living in a 2 bedroom apt in the projects with 3 kids in the house). So I agreed. When I got this child he did not even know his abc's let alone twinle twinkle little start. So in the next 2 months I studied really hard with him to pas kindergarden day to get in. Since then we have had our share of trials and tibulations. We seek a weekly counselor and are being treated for ADHD as wel. My hands are full. My delima is that I do nothing by mysefl or with my BF it has been over a yr since we have a one on one date. I have no family and what friends i do have don't want toi watch him cause he is so mischeif. Ths is really had sent my Bp into major depression over the lasy 10 months and now that I am starting to come aorund in a better moosd my Bf says "oh you just want to snap out of it after I have been taking all this moody shit and expect me to be lovable to you. Is this short do I try I am so confused .I don't want the responsability of kids but i do want some one affectionate and understanding . I am at my witz end please any advice. I have no job to move out also am waiting on SSI, so must take that into consideration too.
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