I have been with my fiance for over two years now.He has a 11 year old daughter that he sees every other weekend.At first when we where dating thing where great.I remember when I first meet his daughter. I was so scared that I spent hours just getting ready.I found her to be very cute and very shy. As we got to know each other things where great.She was so sweet and very smart.We got along great.I only stayed the night once at his house while we where dating at it was lots of fun. I sleep in his room. Which because he had a room mate and only two rooms was also her room. While he sleep on the couch.I was really enjoying my relationship with him and his daughter. So the day he asked me to marry I was over happy!! I was going to be a wife to a man I loved and a stepmother to a little girl I really liked and got along with. My fiance and I moved in a month after he asked me to marry him. Thing went well for awhile. I looked forward to the weekend visit with his daughter. A couple times i would have to watch alone and I enjoyed it. I would spend days before thinking about what we where going to do. After awhile things turned around. She started coming over with a bad attitude. She wouldn't listen to her father and would back talk him all the time.At first i would just watch it happen because i didn't' know what i could do. then my fiance and talked about it. he asked me to back him up on things.So i started. if he would ask her to do something and she wouldn't listen i would tell her your father told you to .... After while it got worse.The worst is when she got in my face screaming at me.She looks at me snotty all the time now. she won't talk to me unless i say thing to her.I don't know what to do any more. I so want to get along with her but her attutide is making it hard. she has become self center and vain .Not only do we have problems with her. his ex is no help she loves to make plans on our weekends with her. she has a bad habit of call my fiance and screaming at him. I'm lost and have no idea what to do. I have no freinds that are step moms. so i don't really have anyone to talk to. so i feel so alone.
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