My fiance had moved into my house 2 years ago. Since then we had gotten engaged. After we got engaged his ex wife got in trouble and he got custody of his two children who are ages 8 and 6. We both are struggling! Besides being a young parent- and I consider myself young at 27- we both are workaholics. When I come home I want peace and quiet or I just want to forget the work day and be silly with my soon to be husband--but I come home to children that do not listen and they create messes and they lie! We have only had them for two months but I am wondering WHEN is it going to get better. I feel bad that I don;t want to spend time with the kids but I am just not into kids right now. I chose the career path- I am about to go crazy---every day it does not get easier...anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?
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