My fiance has two kids a girl,10 and boy,8. To be perfectly honest I have no idea what to do with this situation. We have a baby girl who is 13 weeks. The kids have seem to adjusted to that ok. Now there mother has been filling their heads with who knows what. The little boy told me the other day - you know you aren't going to be my stepmom becuase we don't live with you. I know he didn't come up with that on his own. When they're here, I want to leave. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around them. It's not comfortable at all. I guess it's because we have different ways of parenting. Their bio-mom is materialistic and the kids are getting that way too. Just yesterday the little boy called and wanted his dad to take him to the movies, he never calls to say hi or just to talk only to get something. I feel there is no respect for their dad and for me. I know that is coming from her. I feel like an awful person for feeling this way about the kids but it is so stressful and burdening everytime something comes up that has to do with them. Any advice? Am I just a terrible person? UGH!!
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