Ok some of you have read my other posts, so you know about the situation with my two stepdaughters! Well, here we are going on week 4 that they have stayed away from our house because of an argument? They have blown it so out of proportion it feels like insanity to me? The newest part of this drama is there mother writing to my husband and telling him its not just about the argument that they are staying away they just don't like me and don't want to be around when I'm here? HELLO I live here? Every week for the past 4 weeks they have made up new things that they think I said this week they decided they didn't like me because I honked when I dropped the 12 year old at school and it embarassed her? Whatever I have not done it since my husband told me she didn't like it. What is funny about that is my husband and I are both funny type people at least we think so, so we do this kind of thing to our children mine included all the time! She has never minded it when he's done it? Secondly she said I wigged out because she made mac & cheese and didn't share any with my daughter? If wigging out means asking if she could share than I guess I did? Thanks for letting me vent!!! So their newest deal is that they don't want to come this weekend either but they want their Dad to spend the whole day with them Saturday? I think this sucks because it's all about them controlling the situation again????? I'm pissed off, confused and so frustrated? Anyone out there gone through this? I really don't get them? I have been so nice, with the exception of arguing with their Dad one time about them needing to have better manners and that they act like spoiled brats!!! This argument took place in our bedroom with the door closed but apparently they heard some and that is why they don't want to come to our house their mother said it was traumatic for them! Give me a break!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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