
Step Families Support Group
Traditionally, a stepfamily is the family one acquires when a parent enters a new marriage, whether the parent was widowed or divorced. This community is focused on many of the relationships and issues that may arise within stepfamilies where you may find answers from some members and you may help other members with their questions.

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my son is four, and he is going through that not listening phase at the moment, but my BF has been, saying things like "maybe you should smack the little shit" and things that stop my heart when i hear them he even used the c**t word when discibing something that my son had done the other day. he doesnt say it so my son cant hear tho and it must feel awful for him to hear such things. i think this is highly over the top, and i keep trying to tell him that my son is only 4 and its just a phase we have to get him through, but my BF continually snaps at my son, orders him about, and when im telling my son to do something or saying he has done something wrong, my BF is right behind me cutting me off and lecturing my son more than needs be.
its really frustrating and it causes so many arguements between us, i just want him to respect my son but if i say anything, my BF says he doesnt feel like part of the family. i dont think he is reasonable and diplomatic enough to even speak to my son at the moment and i can see it really hurts my boy because he looks up to my BF so much.
sorry this is so long, but does anyone have advice, i have tried looking at it from my BF's perspective but i think he is being unreasonably angry and resentful.
its really frustrating and it causes so many arguements between us, i just want him to respect my son but if i say anything, my BF says he doesnt feel like part of the family. i dont think he is reasonable and diplomatic enough to even speak to my son at the moment and i can see it really hurts my boy because he looks up to my BF so much.
sorry this is so long, but does anyone have advice, i have tried looking at it from my BF's perspective but i think he is being unreasonably angry and resentful.
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Time for motherly instincts to start protecting her kid and there is only one way to be sure its permanent.
Get rid of him.
I wish you the best of luck
Best advise, put your son's needs before anything else. You're going to be the one to truly make the difference in his life and no one should speak to or about your child that way.