Step Families Support Group
Traditionally, a stepfamily is the family one acquires when a parent enters a new marriage, whether the parent was widowed or divorced. This community is focused on many of the relationships and issues that may arise within stepfamilies where you may find answers from some members and you may help other members with their questions.
hi everyone,
im new here ive been looking for advice on step families and have just found this site,i have been with my fiance for seven yrs now,i had a daghter who was 3 when we met ,they got on brilliantly from the start,when we had been together about two yrs i got pregnant and we had another girl together,my eldest was 6 when she was born to start with everything was ok,as soon as they were old enough to argue ,in my bf eyes it is always my eldests fault,the little one can do no wrong even when she is biting and pinching and pulling her hair,he always sticks up for our daughter together,he says soph(my eldest)has changed and that she is jealous of her younger sister but it isnt that at all,i find my self always having to defend her and it is just causing terrible arguments we dont argue over anything else only this,i dont think he realises what he is doing,am i being over prtective of her ,i dont want to always have to be the bad guy to my youngest either,i just dont know what to do anymore trhis is really depressing me now,any advice would be good
thanks
seren
im new here ive been looking for advice on step families and have just found this site,i have been with my fiance for seven yrs now,i had a daghter who was 3 when we met ,they got on brilliantly from the start,when we had been together about two yrs i got pregnant and we had another girl together,my eldest was 6 when she was born to start with everything was ok,as soon as they were old enough to argue ,in my bf eyes it is always my eldests fault,the little one can do no wrong even when she is biting and pinching and pulling her hair,he always sticks up for our daughter together,he says soph(my eldest)has changed and that she is jealous of her younger sister but it isnt that at all,i find my self always having to defend her and it is just causing terrible arguments we dont argue over anything else only this,i dont think he realises what he is doing,am i being over prtective of her ,i dont want to always have to be the bad guy to my youngest either,i just dont know what to do anymore trhis is really depressing me now,any advice would be good
thanks
seren
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All I find that you can do is really just talk to your husband about it. I am in a similar situation. My husband has basically raised my daughter (his step-daughter). He has two children from a previous marriage. Well, if I am in a different room than him and the children when he has to discipline them I can tell you who he is talking to just by the tone of his voice. I have found that he is a lot easier on his children than he is on my daughter. We have a child together but the baby is to young to tell if he will be different with the baby. But I find all I can do is talk to him and slowly it has been changing. He honestly didn't realize that he was doing it.
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