it just seems like my H and I are always fighting about his son. He has got some major issues going on and I dont think my H knows how to deal with it. His son is intentially defiant..mean to the other kids and is now getting into trouble for the same behavior at school. His is almost 5 and definately has some developmental problems but I dont feel that that is an excuse for his behavior. He gets special treatment in how we handle him because he tends not to understand some things but when he can outright tell you "I broke my stepbrothers toy because it was not mine" i think he knows what he is doing in that sense. My H seems to think differently. I just feel like his son is the ONLY thing that we fight about...and it is a daily thing and I am getting so tired of it. In the beginning of our relationship my oldest son had alot of problems dealing w mom dating but i told everyone that they would not ruin my relationship w him and i needed to be happy. as long as he was not abusive to them they had to deal with it. Unfortunately my H doesnt have the same outlook as i did. he feels like his son comes first and he is the important one. It really hurts me. My H works nights and I am a stay at home Mom to the kids (my 3 and his 1) I am the one who deals mostly with his sons problems but he still does not think I am doing what is in his best interest or that I have different rules for his son. I am at my witts end and am really afraid that this little boy is going to be the end of my marriage...not to mention that I am 10 weeks pregnant!
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