Does anyone here think that having a step-child is a blessing? I do, but after reading so many discouraging topics it looks as though most of you feel like you have been burdened. We all knew what we were gettig into. No, nothing is perfect or as it may seem, but we are adults in all of this. The children are simpley being dragged along for the ride. I know that circumstances that some of you may have come from, may not have been easy, however our step-children didn't ask for mom and dad to screw it up.Why do we continue to worry how everything is effecting us? It's time someone asks "what is best for the kids"? Most likely it isn't yet adding more stress to their already mix up life. I love my step-daughter and things aren't always perfect but her well being will always be the utmost importance to me; and her daddy. His devotion to her is why I fell in love with him in the 1st place. Anyone, anyone at all feel this way????????
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